
Contact
us at:
101 S.
Washington St. Suite 200
Marion,
IN 46952
Phone:
765-662-9971
Fax:
765-651-6556
email: famservices@famservices.com
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HANDS OF HOPE
Hands of Hope, formerly called
Women’s Services, is a division of Family Service Society, Inc.
Services have
been offered in Grant County since 1981 and Wabash County since 1984.
The name was changed to Hands
of Hope in 1997 to enforce to the community that DV is not just a
female issue,
but a family problem and crime and that we work with the entire family.
Hands
of Hope is funded through federal grants, United Way of Grant County,
United
Fund of Wabash County, private businesses, individuals, churches and
civic
groups. There is no charge for the programs offered to victims of
domestic
violence, homelessness or sexual assault. For more information, please
contact Linda Wilk at
765-662-9971 ext. 123.
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***Hands
of Hope: EXPECT RESPECT COMMUNITY WALK- Grant County, Sept. 18th***
When
you renew your license plate, help end violence in Indiana.
Services Provided by Hands of Hope
- Crisis Hotline-
765-664-0701 or 1-800-434-8973
- Flannery-Keal Shelter-
Is a shelter for female victims of domestic violence and their children
(arrangements made for male victims). Domestic violence victims
may stay up to 45 days at the emergency shelter where all their basic
necessities such as food, clothing, personal hypgiene items are
provided for them at not cost. We can assist homeless women and
their children for up to 45 days when space permits.
**Case management- all clients are required
to meet with the case manager at least twice
weekly to work with the case manager to set
realistic goals for self-sufficiency.
**Case management is also available to
outreach clients who do not want to come to the
shelter.
**Children’s
advocate – this
staff person works with the children providing recreational
groups,
tutoring
etc
- W.E.N.D.
(Women Exploring
New Directions in their relationship)- Free support group for victims of domestic
violence. Topics include: the cycle of violence, healthy styles
of relationships, and establishing boundaries. The group meets
from 6-7:30pm, Thursdays. Call for location: 664-0701.
- W.E.N.D.- Grant Co.
- W.E.N.D.-
Wabash Co.- Currently not meeting,
if you have a need for counseling or a support group in Wabash County,
please call the Hands of Hope Crisis Hotline at 1-800-434-8973.
- Alternative's Batterers
Program- This group is for those who are physically or
emotionally abusing a spouse or significant other. It is a
26-week program, that meets Monday evenings and costs $20/session.
The group is held at Family Service Society, Inc. at 101 S.
Washington St. Suite 200 and has two sessions each Monday, call
662-9971 for more details.
- Wabash County Victims
Advocacy Services- Provides 24-hour assistance to victims
of domestic violence and sexual assault. The Wabash County
Victims Advocacy Coordinator may be reached at 260-563-4407 or after
hours by calling the crisis hotline at 1-800-434-8973.
- Community Education-
Community education provided in Grant County to elementary
students to educate students about domestic violence is done through
two programs: Kid-Ability and Hands are Not for Hitting. Programs
have also been developed on bullying for fourth and fifth-graders as
well as dating violence and date rape for middle and high school
students. Similar programs are offered to students in Wabash
County.
Teen Dating Abuse &
Relationships
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New Teen Dating Violence Card
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- Parents:
- Information about teen
dating abuse and how to talk to
your teenager, click here.
- Information about Facebook, click here.
- Adolescents/Teens:
- BLOG for girls age 11-17
dealing with relationships,
click here.
- BLOG for boys age 11-17
dealing with relationships, click here.
(COMING SOON)
5 Types of Abuse
- Emotional Abuse - There
are many forms
of emotional abuse including ignoring a person and their feelings,
lying about
them to others, playing mind games, being jealous, and being
possessive. Not
allowing them to have friends, degrading them by calling them names or
making
them feel worthless. Publically humiliating them.
- Verbal Abuse - Yelling,
insults,
swearing, interrupting, put downs, name calling, threats, and not
listening.
- Physical Abuse - Destroying
property,
getting into someone’s face, blocking someone’s path,
spitting, slapping,
pulling hair, pushing, punching, beating, kicking, choking, threatening
to do
harm, using weapons, throwing things, breaking things in sight of the
other
person, punching walls, and driving in a reckless manner. Locking her
out of
the house.
- Sexual Abuse - Rape,
unwanted sexual
touching, rude comments, not listening, staring at a person to make
them
uncomfortable, sexual harassment, and inappropriate jokes criticizing
them
sexually. Calling partner sexual names, treating partner as a sexual
object.
- Financial Abuse - Making
you ask for
money, preventing you from getting or keeping a job, not contributing
financially, not paying child support.
50 Reasons Why Women Don't Leave Their
Abusers...
The
children...Money...Fear...Relatives blame her...Therapist blames
her...Police blame her...Clergy blames her...Her batterer blames
her...She blames herself...No one believes she’s being
abused...She doesn’t think she’s being abused...Her partner
says “I love you”...Her partner says “I’m
sorry”...Her partner says “I’m
the best thing that’s ever happened to you”...Her partner
says “I’ll never do it again”...Her partner says
“I’ll kill you if you leave”...Her partner says
“I’ll take the children”...Her partner says
“I’ll kill myself if you leave”...She’ll be
homeless...The shelters are full...She believes the welfare system will
abuse her worse...Her partner loves her...She loves her partner...The
children love them both...Her father abused her...Her mother abused
her...Her partner is an alcoholic...Her partner is a drug
addict...She’s an alcoholic...She’s a drug addict...Her
partner’s a pimp...She’s tried to leave before...Her
partner found her before...She can’t speak English...She
doesn’t have the papers to be in this country...She’s in a
wheel chair...She’s deaf...She’s retarded...She’s
blind...Her partner is her personal care attendant...Her partner is a
public figure...She’s a public figure...She can’t
read...She’s afraid of the unknown...She’s
isolated...She’s depressed...Her partner threatens to expose her
as a lesbian...She’s never told anyone...It’s not the right
time, yet
If any of these
reasons are things you or someone you know have dealt with,
give us a call, we can provide the support and information you need.
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