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Contact us at:

101 S. Washington St. Suite 200

Marion, IN 46952
Phone: 765-662-9971
Fax: 765-651-6556
email: famservices@famservices.com

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HANDS OF HOPE
Hands of Hope, formerly called Women’s Services, is a division of Family Service Society, Inc. Services have been offered in Grant County since 1981 and  Wabash County since 1984.
 
The name was changed to Hands of Hope in 1997 to enforce to the community that DV is not just a female issue, but a family problem and crime and that we work with the entire family. Hands of Hope is funded through federal grants, United Way of Grant County, United Fund of Wabash County, private businesses, individuals, churches and civic groups. There is no charge for the programs offered to victims of domestic violence, homelessness or sexual assault.
  For more information, please contact Linda Wilk at 765-662-9971 ext. 123.

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Services Provided by Hands of Hope
  • Crisis Hotline- 765-664-0701 or 1-800-434-8973
  • Flannery-Keal Shelter- Is a shelter for female victims of domestic violence and their children (arrangements made for male victims).  Domestic violence victims may stay up to 45 days at the emergency shelter where all their basic necessities such as food, clothing, personal hypgiene items are provided for them at not cost.  We can assist homeless women and their children for up to 45 days when space permits.  
            **Case management- all clients are required to meet with the case manager at least twice                                             weekly to work with the case manager to set realistic goals for self-sufficiency.  

            **Case management is also available to outreach clients who do not want to come to the                                             shelter.

            **Children’s advocate – this staff person works with the children providing recreational                                             groups, tutoring etc

  • Support Groups
    • W.E.N.D. (Women Exploring New Directions in their relationship)- Free support group for victims of domestic violence.  Topics include: the cycle of violence, healthy styles of relationships, and establishing boundaries.  The group meets from 6-7:30pm, Thursdays. Call for location: 664-0701.
      • W.E.N.D.- Grant Co.
      • W.E.N.D.- Wabash Co.- Currently not meeting, if you have a need for counseling or a support group in Wabash County, please call the Hands of Hope Crisis Hotline at 1-800-434-8973.
    • Alternative's Batterers Program- This group is for those who are physically or emotionally abusing a spouse or significant other.  It is a 26-week program, that meets Monday evenings and costs $20/session.  The group is held at Family Service Society, Inc. at 101 S. Washington St. Suite 200 and has two sessions each Monday, call 662-9971 for more details.
    • Wabash County Victims Advocacy Services-  Provides 24-hour assistance to victims of domestic violence and sexual assault.  The Wabash County Victims Advocacy Coordinator may be reached at 260-563-4407 or after hours by calling the crisis hotline at 1-800-434-8973.
        
    • Community Education-  Community education provided in Grant County to elementary students to educate students about domestic violence is done through two programs: Kid-Ability and Hands are Not for Hitting.  Programs have also been developed on bullying for fourth and fifth-graders as well as dating violence and date rape for middle and high school students.  Similar programs are offered to students in Wabash County.


Teen Dating Abuse & Relationships


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  • Parents: 
    • Information about teen dating abuse and how to talk to your teenager, click here.
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    • BLOG for girls age 11-17 dealing with relationships, click here.
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5 Types of Abuse
  • Emotional Abuse - There are many forms of emotional abuse including ignoring a person and their feelings, lying about them to others, playing mind games, being jealous, and being possessive. Not allowing them to have friends, degrading them by calling them names or making them feel worthless. Publically humiliating them.
  • Verbal Abuse - Yelling, insults, swearing, interrupting, put downs, name calling, threats, and not listening.
  • Physical Abuse - Destroying property, getting into someone’s face, blocking someone’s path, spitting, slapping, pulling hair, pushing, punching, beating, kicking, choking, threatening to do harm, using weapons, throwing things, breaking things in sight of the other person, punching walls, and driving in a reckless manner. Locking her out of the house.
  • Sexual Abuse - Rape, unwanted sexual touching, rude comments, not listening, staring at a person to make them uncomfortable, sexual harassment, and inappropriate jokes criticizing them sexually. Calling partner sexual names, treating partner as a sexual object.
  • Financial Abuse - Making you ask for money, preventing you from getting or keeping a job, not contributing financially, not paying child support.


50 Reasons Why Women Don't Leave Their Abusers...
The children...Money...Fear...Relatives blame her...Therapist blames her...Police blame her...Clergy blames her...Her batterer blames her...She blames herself...No one believes she’s being abused...She doesn’t think she’s being abused...Her partner says “I love you”...Her partner says “I’m sorry”...Her partner says “I’m the best thing that’s ever happened to you”...Her partner says “I’ll never do it again”...Her partner says “I’ll kill you if you leave”...Her partner says “I’ll take the children”...Her partner says “I’ll kill myself if you leave”...She’ll be homeless...The shelters are full...She believes the welfare system will abuse her worse...Her partner loves her...She loves her partner...The children love them both...Her father abused her...Her mother abused her...Her partner is an alcoholic...Her partner is a drug addict...She’s an alcoholic...She’s a drug addict...Her partner’s a pimp...She’s tried to leave before...Her partner found her before...She can’t speak English...She doesn’t have the papers to be in this country...She’s in a wheel chair...She’s deaf...She’s retarded...She’s blind...Her partner is her personal care attendant...Her partner is a public figure...She’s a public figure...She can’t read...She’s afraid of the unknown...She’s isolated...She’s depressed...Her partner threatens to expose her as a lesbian...She’s never told anyone...It’s not the right time, yet

If any of these reasons are things you or someone you know have dealt with, 
give us a call, we can provide the support and information you need.

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